09/14/2020
Pre-Divorce Checklist
Source:2018 Karen Covy Enterprises, LLC
Forwarded by: Udai V. Singh, Family Law Attorney; 404-918-8167
Financial Items
1. Pull your credit report.
2. Open credit card accounts in your own name.
3. Open checking and savings accounts in your own name.
4. Get copies of all financial documents you will need in your divorce (Get my
Divorce Document Checklist for specifics.)
5. Make a budget of what you and your spouse earn and spend now.
6. Make a budget of what you will earn and spend after your divorce.
7. If you are covered under your spouse’s health insurance policy, research how
you can get your own insurance, and how much it will cost.
8. Get a realtor to give you an estimate of what your house is worth.
9. Investigate all of the employee benefits that you and your spouse have. Make
sure you understand what each of you has, and what it is worth.
10. Make a list of all of your assets and liabilities. Get as much documentation of the value of each item as possible.
Personal Items
1. Get a good therapist.
2. Consider joining a divorce support group if you think that would be helpful to you.
3. Put irreplaceable personal property(jewelry, family heirlooms, family photos) in a safe place before your divorce.
4. Figure out how you are going to pay the bills while your divorce is pending.
5. Figure out how you are going to pay the bills after your divorce.
6. Deal with any health issues before your divorce is final.
7. Get a PO Box and re-direct your mail.
8. Change your email and electronic account passwords. (Note: Do NOT change
the passwords on your joint accounts without discussing it with your spouse
and/or attorney beforehand.)
9. Change your social media passwords. Be careful what you post on social media
during your divorce.
Family Items
1. Make a plan for how you (hopefully with your spouse) will tell the children about the divorce.
2. Make a proposed schedule for when you and your spouse will each see the
children during the divorce.
3. Figure out the best time to tell your children’s teachers and other appropriate
professionals about the divorce so they can help your children deal with their
changing circumstances.
4. Get your children into counseling if necessary and appropriate.
5. Make a parenting plan. Remember to deal with all important religious, medical,
and educational issues as well as just parenting time. (Request a copy of Parenting Issues Checklist for Specifics.)
Legal Items
1. Think about HOW you want to divorce, and research the various ways to get
divorced.
2. Find a good divorce lawyer who specializes in handling divorces in the way you
want to get divorced.
3. Provide your lawyer with all necessary financial information.
4. Consider revoking any personal and healthcare powers of attorney you may
have. (Talk to your lawyer about this first.)
5. For women - Make sure that your lawyer knows whether you want your maiden
name back.
Post Divorce Checklist
1. Make a new Will, Power of Attorney, and Healthcare Directive.
2. Change the beneficiary on all of your retirement accounts, investment accounts
and life insurance policies (unless your divorce judgment says otherwise).
3. If you are changing your name, do so on all of your credit cards, bank accounts,
and online accounts. Remember to change the name on your driver’s license,
passport, and social security card.
4. Change vehicle titles (if necessary).
5. Make sure that any retirement funds that were supposed to get transferred to you
actually get transferred.
6. Make sure to transfer all funds from bank and investment accounts in
accordance with your divorce judgment.
7. Pull your credit report again.
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