25/04/2026
When marriage ends, it's totally unhealthy for the child/children for one parent to intentionally deprive the other parent of genuine access to the child or children.
Frustrate all efforts for children gotten together in the marriage to prove a useless point,and cause the other parent pain continually for longing for the children.
It's all about your useless ego, whereas the emotional and psychological well-being of the child or children you claim so much to love is not considered.
Parents can co-parent in peace without being in each other's faces, and heaven will not fall.
Then there are some parents who paint the other spouse the villain,and brainwash the kids from wanting to have anything to do with their own parents.
That's toxicity at its peak..
If the marriage breaks down, it's between you and your spouse who couldn't get your acts together as grown adults.
Don't get children involved and traumatize them for issues beyond their control.
Someone I know has been deprived of access to her children, and even the little access she tries to get to them at school, the kids see her and run away because their dad told them too.
The mom is making deliberate efforts to get them through legal means, because the dad has custody of them, he tells them their mom is traumatizing their mental health by coming to look for them, that they should tell her that.
Avoid her and not go close to her, and cause of fear, they act on it.
The one that could say it, said it.
The one that couldn't, ran away when they saw her.
She has decided to let them be, cause getting them has proved abortive
And the ones she is fighting to get, are running away when they see her cause their dad told them to.
So what is the point.
Parents of failed marriages can co-parent in peace.
But some will never let that happen.
So they want the other parent without the child /children to be in perpetual emotional pain.
So sad.