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19/10/2026

Your Foreign Divorce May Not Be Valid in India: A Supreme Court Ruling Every NRI Family Should Know
A divorce decree from America, the UK, Canada or the Gulf can still leave you legally married in India. Most families find this out only when it is too late.
Imagine this. A young couple from Bangalore marries here with full rituals and moves to the United States. A few years later the marriage falls apart. The wife files for divorce in an American court. The husband, busy and upset, sends one letter objecting to the case and ignores the rest. A divorce decree is passed and both move on with their lives. Years later one of them marries again, buys property, or returns to India, and only then learns that in the eyes of Indian law the first marriage may still be alive.
This is not a story from a film. It is very close to what the Supreme Court of India decided in January 2026.
The couple in that case married in Mumbai in December 2005 under Hindu rites and later lived in the United States. In 2008 the wife approached a court in Michigan for divorce. The husband filed a written objection by post, saying that the American court had no jurisdiction, that is, no legal power over their marriage, because they were married under the Hindu Marriage Act. He did not take part in the case after that. In 2009 the American court passed an ex parte decree, which means a decision given without hearing the other side, and dissolved the marriage on the ground of irretrievable breakdown. Meanwhile, the husband had filed his own divorce petition before the Family Court at Pune.
The Family Court at Pune refused to accept the American divorce. The Bombay High Court took the opposite view and held the American decree valid. The Supreme Court set aside the High Court's judgment and agreed with the Family Court.
The Supreme Court ruling rests on two simple tests. First, a foreign court can dissolve such a marriage only on a ground that the Hindu Marriage Act itself recognises. Irretrievable breakdown of marriage, a common ground in America, is not a ground for divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act. Second, the other spouse must have genuinely taken part in the foreign case or agreed to the divorce. Sending a letter objecting to jurisdiction is not taking part. The American decree failed both tests, so it was not binding in India.
In reaching this decision the Court followed its own landmark judgment of 1991 in Y. Narasimha Rao versus Y. Venkata Lakshmi. In that case a husband obtained a divorce in the United States without his wife taking part and then married again. The wife filed a criminal complaint of bigamy, and the Supreme Court held that the foreign divorce could not be recognised in India.
So if you were married in India and your divorce was granted abroad, ask yourself three questions. On what ground was the divorce granted? Did your spouse actually take part in the case or consent to it? Was your marriage performed under Indian law? If the answers are not in your favour, the foreign decree may not protect you in India. A second marriage could be questioned, a maintenance case could still be filed here, and matters of property, inheritance and children could all become complicated.
The law also protects the spouse who is in India. If your husband or wife has filed a case abroad and you live in Bangalore, you are not helpless. Under the Hindu Marriage Act a divorce petition can be filed, among other places, where the couple last lived together, and a wife can also file where she is presently living. A wife in Bangalore can claim maintenance here as well. And if both agree to separate, a divorce by mutual consent can be obtained in India, with the spouse who lives abroad joining through video conference or through a person holding a power of attorney, where the court permits.
In the end the couple in this case did get divorced. They had been living apart since 2008, and the Supreme Court used its special power under Article 142 of the Constitution to dissolve the marriage. But it did so under Indian law, and not on the strength of the American decree.
The message is clear. A divorce paper from abroad does not automatically end a marriage solemnised in India. Before you sign, ignore or rely on papers from a foreign court, find out what they will mean here.
Almost every Indian family today has someone living abroad. If this post can save even one of them years of trouble, please share it with them.
Judgments referred to: KM v. KK, Supreme Court of India, order dated 15 January 2026, reported as 2026 SCC OnLine SC 448 and 2026 LiveLaw (SC) 259; and Y. Narasimha Rao and Others v. Y. Venkata Lakshmi and Another, (1991) 3 SCC 451. Both can be found easily on Google.
Did you know that a divorce from abroad could be questioned in India? Has anyone in your family been through something similar? Tell us in the comments. Questions that come up often will be answered in my next posts. Please avoid sharing names or private details in public.
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29/09/2026

Fighting a Divorce Case for Years? Two Supreme Court Judgments This Year Every Husband and Wife Should Read

Many husbands and wives in Bangalore are stuck in a divorce case where one says yes and the other says no. Dates keep getting adjourned, years pass, and both are tired. So what does the Supreme Court say about such cases? 2 judgments from this year give a clear picture.

A contested case is not decided on anger, on ego, or on who shouts louder. It is decided on facts.

In the first case, the wife was a qualified dentist and the husband an Army officer. She gave up her practice in Pune to move with him to his remote posting. She returned to Ahmedabad because of her pregnancy, and later because their little daughter needed medical treatment, and she set up her own clinic there. The husband filed for divorce on the grounds of cruelty and desertion. The Family Court granted it and the High Court agreed. The Supreme Court did not accept those findings. It held that a wife pursuing her profession and living separately for her child's welfare and medical care cannot be called cruel or a deserter, and it removed those findings from the record. But the wife did not ask for the marriage to be restored and the husband had remarried, so the divorce stayed, only on the ground that the marriage had broken down.

In the second case, both husband and wife were doctors. In a marriage of about eighteen years, they lived together for only two or three months and then stayed apart for nearly fifteen years. The husband asked for divorce and the wife opposed it. The Family Court dismissed his petition, the High Court granted the divorce, and the wife went to the Supreme Court. The Supreme Court upheld the divorce. It said a court hearing an appeal may treat a very long separation, with no genuine effort at reconciliation, as an indicator of mental cruelty. It looked at the whole record and not only at the number of years.

What can an ordinary husband or wife take from this?

A label is not proof. Writing cruelty or desertion in a petition is easy. Proving it with facts is what the court looks for, and a wrong label can be removed from the record even when the divorce itself stays.

The reason you are living apart matters. Two people can live in different houses for very different reasons, and the court will ask why.

Years of separation are not neutral. When a marriage has been over in every way except on paper, the court looks at whether anyone made a real effort to bring it back.

How you behave during the case is also noticed, including how fair your allegations are.

A contested divorce can be long and tiring for the whole family. Many couples settle at some stage, and that route is also worth thinking about with proper advice.

Every marriage is different. What works for one family can go wrong for another, because in family matters two plus two does not always make four.

If you want to read the judgments yourself, you can search them online:

Ann Saurabh Dutt v. Saurabh Iqbal Bahadur Dutt, Supreme Court of India, 12 May 2026, Justice Vikram Nath and Justice Sandeep Mehta, 2026 SCC OnLine SC 850.

Sonal Talpada v. Veerbhan Singh, Supreme Court of India, 2 June 2026, Justice Sanjay Karol and Justice Augustine George Masih, 2026 INSC 620 (SLP (C) No. 10422 of 2025).

What do you think? If a marriage has been dead for many years, should the court still ask whose fault it was, or should it simply let both people move on? Share your view in the comments. Husband or wife, if you have a general question on contested divorce, you can ask it here.

This is general information only, not legal advice for any particular case.

17/09/2026

Planning a Mutual Divorce? Read This Before You Sign Anything

Many couples in Bangalore today do not want to spend years in court. Both are working, both are tired, and both simply want to close the chapter peacefully and move on. So they sit together, agree on terms, sign a settlement and file for divorce by mutual consent.

It sounds simple. But what goes into that settlement paper can affect your life for years. Two recent Supreme Court judgments make this very clear.

In the first case, a couple settled all their disputes through mediation at the Family Court and applied for mutual divorce. Both sides started acting on the settlement. Money was paid, property was transferred and jewellery was returned. Then, before the final stage, one of them refused to go ahead and filed a fresh case. The Supreme Court said a person can withdraw consent before the final divorce order. But once all disputes are settled on paper, you cannot walk away from those terms just like that. The exceptions are force, fraud or undue pressure, or the other side not keeping its promise. The Court granted the divorce, closed all the cases between them and stopped any further litigation.

In the second case, one spouse gave up all money claims in a written settlement and confirmed it before the Family Court, and the mutual divorce was granted. Later, the same money claims were raised again through a new case. The Supreme Court said that what you willingly give up in a settlement cannot be brought back later. Simply saying "I was forced to sign", without properly challenging the settlement, was not enough. But the couple's grown-up daughter, who had not signed that paper, still kept her own rights.

So if you are thinking of settling, keep a few things in mind.
Put everything in writing. That means the amount, when and how it will be paid, jewellery and personal belongings, the flat, loans and joint accounts, the children's custody and visiting days, and the closing of every pending case. Whatever is left out today becomes tomorrow's fight.

Many couples link payments to the stages of the case: one part at the first stage and the balance at the final stage. This gives comfort to both sides.

Signing a paper does not automatically end a police or criminal case. The proper court process still has to be followed.

Never sign under pressure, and never sign thinking you can change your mind later. Courts take a signed settlement very seriously, whether you are the husband or the wife.

One more thing many people do not know. Under the Hindu Marriage Act, the six-month waiting period in a mutual divorce is not always compulsory. The Supreme Court has said it can be waived in suitable cases. That applies where the couple have already been living apart for at least a year and a half, all efforts to bring them back together have failed, and every issue, including alimony and the children, has been genuinely settled.

Every couple's situation is different. A clause that works well for one family can create trouble for another. Get proper advice on your own facts before you sign, because in family matters two plus two does not always make four.

If you wish to read the judgments online:

Dhananjay Rathi v. Ruchika Rathi, Supreme Court of India, 13 April 2026, Justice Rajesh Bindal and Justice Vijay Bishnoi, 2026 SCC OnLine SC 587.
Reji Baby v. Subi Mary, Supreme Court of India, 24 August 2026, Justice Sandeep Mehta and Justice Manmohan, 2026 SCC OnLine SC 1697.
Amardeep Singh v. Harveen Kaur, Supreme Court of India, 2017, (2017) 8 SCC 746.

What do you think? Is a mutual divorce with a clear settlement better than a long court fight, or does it push one side to sign in a hurry? Share your view in the comments. Husband or wife, if you have a general question about mutual divorce or settlement, you can ask that too.

This is general information only, not legal advice for any particular case.

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03/09/2026

13/06/2026

Husband in America, wife in Bangalore, and a divorce that ended in just three working days

Many people in our community carry a completely wrong picture in their mind about divorce by mutual consent. They think it will drag on for years. They think that if one spouse is living abroad, it is simply not possible without that person flying down to India and spending a fortune. They think the waiting period is written in stone and nothing can move until it expires. Because of all these fears, many families stay silently trapped inside a marriage that has already died, not knowing that the situation they are in may have a clean, peaceful and dignified way out.

I recently handled a matter where the husband was settled in the United States and the wife was here in Bangalore. Both of them had made up their minds peacefully. There was no fight, no dispute, nothing left unresolved between them. They simply wanted to part ways with dignity and move on with their lives. Without going into any detail that could identify anyone, because protecting a client's privacy is a duty every advocate is bound by law to observe, I can tell you that the matter was fully resolved and closed in just three working days. The husband did not travel. He did not buy a single flight ticket. He did not take leave from his job in America.

Most people reading this will find that hard to believe. But this is what is possible today in Bangalore, when the facts are right and the matter is handled correctly before the right court.

The Supreme Court of India has in a landmark judgment, Amardeep Singh versus Harveen Kaur, decided on 12 September 2017 and reported as (2017) 8 SCC 746, made it clear that courts have the power to look at the real situation before them and act accordingly when a marriage has completely and genuinely broken down and both parties have settled everything between themselves without any dispute. Anyone who wishes to read this judgment can find it easily by typing the case name into Google.

What this tells us is simple. The law, when it is in the right hands and placed before the right court, is far more practical and humane than most people imagine. A peaceful separation between two mature and willing people does not have to become a years long ordeal. It does not have to mean endless court visits, endless waiting, and endless money spent on travel.

I am writing this because I have seen too many people stay stuck inside broken marriages simply because they believed things that were not true. Wrong information, passed from one person to another, causes real damage to real lives.

If you are facing a similar situation or have a general question about how such matters work, write your question in the comments below and I will explain in plain words for everyone's benefit. Please do not share any personal details in a public comment.

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11/05/2026

Can a Bank Demand Two Crores From You on a Ten Thousand Rupee Credit Card?

A gentleman walked into my office last week, holding a printout. His hands were shaking.

In 2006, when he was an MBA student, he had taken a small credit card. The limit was just ten thousand rupees. He used it for a few months, made his last payment in December 2007, and then forgot about it completely. Marriage, work, children, life moved on.

This year he decided to apply for a home loan. He pulled out his credit report to check. What he saw made him sit down on the road.

His outstanding on that one old card was being shown as more than one crore twenty nine lakh rupees. The credit utilisation was one lakh twenty nine thousand percent. On a card whose limit was only ten thousand. He thought it was a software error.

It was not. When he wrote to the bank, ran from branch to branch, and finally filed a complaint with the Banking Ombudsman, the bank gave him a formal response. They demanded that he pay over two crore forty seven lakh rupees. The letter said that once he paid, his credit report would be shown as normal closure.

This is happening to many honest middle class people in our country. The pattern is always similar. An old card from college or first job. A small limit. No usage for fifteen or twenty years. No signed acknowledgment. Then suddenly a crore level entry appears in CIBIL, and a demand notice runs into many crores because someone has loaded interest at three percent per month for fifteen years and stacked GST on top.

Now please read these two simple legal points carefully, because they can save you lakhs.

The first is the law of limitation. The Limitation Act of 1963 says that a bank has only three years to file a recovery suit for a money debt. Three years from the date you stopped paying. If the bank does not file a case in court within those three years, the law treats the debt as legally dead. The bank loses the right to recover that money. This is called a time barred debt. The only way the three year clock restarts is if you sign a fresh written acknowledgment, or make a fresh payment. So if you have not signed anything and not paid anything for many years, that old debt cannot be sued upon. The bank cannot revive a dead debt just by writing it off in their own books fifteen years later.

The second point is about credit reporting. The Credit Information Companies Regulation Act of 2005 gives you a legal right to demand correction of wrong information. And the Reserve Bank of India issued a circular on 26 October 2023 which says that if a bank delays in correcting wrong credit information beyond the prescribed period, the bank must pay you one hundred rupees per day until the correction is done. Yes, one hundred rupees per day. The circular is freely available on the RBI website. Anyone can download it.

And there is a very strong Supreme Court judgment, Citicorp Maruti Finance Limited versus S. Vijayalaxmi, reported in 2012 volume 1 SCC page 1. The Supreme Court held that banks which violate RBI guidelines and use coercive methods against borrowers can be ordered to pay punitive damages to the customer. Google the case name. You will find the full judgment.

So if you ever find such an entry on your credit report, please remember five things.

Do not panic, and do not pay even one rupee in a hurry. A single payment can revive a debt that was already legally dead.

Do not sign any settlement letter the bank sends without showing it to a lawyer. Your signature on the wrong paper can restart the limitation clock.

Keep written records of every email, every visit, every conversation. In these matters paperwork is power.

Use the remedies in order. Written complaint to the bank first. Then RBI Ombudsman online. Then consumer commission, writ petition, or civil suit depending on the facts.

Remember that a public sector bank is bound by the Constitution. Article 14 protects you from arbitrary action. No bank can demand a crore on a ten thousand rupee card and call it lawful.

The Constitution belongs to every citizen of this country equally. The law of limitation, in particular, is a friend of the ordinary citizen against the long memory of large institutions. Most people never use this protection because nobody tells them it exists. The bank counter staff have no reason to mention it to you.

If you or someone in your family is going through something similar, please write your question in the comments below.

One forgotten card from college days should not destroy a man's home loan twenty years later. The law does not allow it. You only need to know that the law is on your side.

26/04/2026

Two months without salary. And the password no longer works.

This is what I am dealing with right now, in a matter on my desk, for an Indian Director who built a company with a foreign partner over more than five years, only to discover that the partnership was never a partnership at all.

I want to share what I am seeing, because I think there are many Indian co-founders in Bengaluru who are walking into this same situation without realising it.

The story begins the way most Indian-foreign partnerships begin. An Indian technology professional comes together with a foreigner, almost always based in the United States. Together they decide to start a bookkeeping or software services company. They register an Indian private limited company in Bengaluru. They register a holding company inthe USA. The Indian side takes a 35 percent shareholding on paper. The foreign side takes the controlling stake.
The Indian director does the actual work. He recruits the team in Bommasandra. He sets up the office, signs the rent deed, negotiates with the landlord. He puts the team on Zoho payroll, deals with the income tax department, the GST, the EPF, the auditor, the company secretary. He builds the technology. He delivers to the clients. He puts his own money — sometimes more than seventy lakh rupees — into the company when payroll runs short.

The foreign partner sits in California. He registers a Stripe payment account and a Bank of America account, but in the name of his own personal company — not in the name of the joint venture. The client revenues land there. He sends back to India only what is needed to keep the lights on. The Indian director is told this is "treasury management". He believes it.

For more than five years, this works. The Indian director works fourteen-hour days. He believes he is a partner. He has the shareholding to prove it.

Then comes the moment everything changes. The Indian director asks a question about the books. He notices that revenues that should have come into the Indian company have been routed through the foreign partner's personal account. He raises it formally. He refuses to sign a financial statement that does not look right.

From that day, the chess pieces start moving. Quietly.
One morning in early April, the Zoho login stops working. Then the Google Workspace admin console. The salary that was due on the first does not arrive. Auditors receive a strange email asking for unusual revisions. Employees are pulled aside one by one and asked questions about the Indian director, in private, without his knowledge.

And then a letter from a high-profile Bengaluru law firm arrives. Marked "without prejudice". Threatening criminal action under criminal breach of trust. The suggestion is that the Indian director — the man who built the company — has done something wrong with the company's data and assets.

This is the part that breaks the Indian director's faith in the partnership.

The conduct that is suddenly being called criminal is the same conduct the foreign partner himself authorised in writing, years earlier. The same access to the same systems. The same use of the same accounts. The same routing of the same payments. All of it was the foreign partner's own design. And now, when the Indian director starts asking for a fair accounting, the design itself is being rewritten as an Indian crime.

This is the colonial pattern in modern dress. Useful while the work is being done. Disposable when the question of who actually owns the value gets asked.

What I want anyone reading this to know is that Indian law gives the trapped director real protection if it is invoked correctly and in time.

The National Company Law Tribunal at Bengaluru has wide powers under Sections 241 and 242 of the Companies Act, 2013, read with Section 244, to grant relief against oppression and mismanagement. The threshold for standing is one-tenth of the issued share capital, which a 35 percent shareholder satisfies many times over.

The Commercial Courts at Bengaluru handle the recovery of director loans, capital injections and unpaid remuneration above the statutory threshold, after a pre-litigation mediation notice.
If the criminal threats become specific, anticipatory bail under Section 482 of the Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita, 2023, is available before the Sessions Court even before any FIR has been registered. The Constitution Bench of the Supreme Court has settled this beyond doubt in Sushila Aggarwal v. State (NCT of Delhi), (2020) 5 SCC 1.

The single thing that decides whether the protection works or fails is timing. The right moment to seek advice is not after the salary has been stopped for two months and the threats are already in writing. The right moment is when the first password change happens. The first unexplained "without prejudice" email from a Bengaluru law firm. The first time the foreign partner who used to discuss everything with you suddenly stops returning calls.

The directors who come at the right time get protection that holds. The directors who come late find that the work is much harder, and the cost is much higher.

If anyone reading this is in a situation that resembles this story, or has a friend or family member who is, please feel free to put a question in the comments. General direction within what is appropriate, I am happy to provide. For specific situations, you can message me directly, and we can speak privately.

Partha Sarkar
Advocate
Bengaluru

20/03/2026

Does mental suffering in a marriage qualify as legal grounds for divorce? The Supreme Court of India says YES.

Most people believe that to seek divorce, you need visible proof — physical violence, hospital records, or police complaints.
That is not the complete picture of the law.

What the Supreme Court of India actually held:
K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa (2013) 5 SCC 226 — Supreme Court of India

In this landmark judgment, the Supreme Court laid down clearly —
Mental cruelty does not require physical violence to be proved.

The following conduct — sustained over time — can legally constitute cruelty under matrimonial law: — Repeated humiliation and verbal abuse — False accusations against the spouse or their family — Deliberate isolation from family and friends — Persistent suspicion without basis — Making the matrimonial home so hostile that cohabitation becomes unreasonable

Either spouse — husband or wife — can seek divorce on this ground.

Legal basis: Section 13(1)(ia), Hindu Marriage Act, 1955

What this means for you in plain language:

If you have been enduring years of emotional cruelty, constant belittling, or a marriage that has become psychologically unbearable, you are not without legal remedy simply because there are no visible injuries.

Courts today examine the cumulative effect of conduct on the mental health and dignity of a spouse.

You do not have to wait for the situation to become violent before you can seek legal protection.

Every matrimonial situation is unique. The strength of a case depends entirely on specific facts, timeline, and available evidence. A judgment in your favour is built on careful preparation — not assumptions.

If you are confused about your rights or your options under family law, speak to a qualified family court advocate before taking any step.

17/03/2026

When Both Parties Want Out — But the Law Creates Delay A note on the Supreme Court's landmark ruling in Shilpa Sailesh v. Varun Sreenivasan (2023)

In May 2023, a Constitution Bench of the Supreme Court of India delivered a significant judgment that every person going through a difficult marriage should know about.

The Court held that under Article 142 of the Constitution, the Supreme Court has the power to dissolve a marriage on the ground of irretrievable breakdown — even if one spouse does not consent. More practically, it also ruled that the mandatory 6-month waiting period under Section 13B(2) of the Hindu Marriage Act for mutual consent divorce can be waived entirely, if the court is satisfied that the marriage has broken down completely and there is no possibility of reunion.

This means that couples who have genuinely separated, settled all issues including maintenance and child custody, and are waiting only because of a procedural 6-month requirement, now have a legal basis to seek waiver of that waiting period before the Family Court itself.

Before this judgment, many couples in Bangalore — including Bengali families far from their home state — were forced to wait months unnecessarily even after full settlement. This ruling changes that position.