22/04/2026
One of the biggest myths in family law? Mothers automatically get custody after separation.
Not true. And the law doesn't even use "custody" anymore, it's called "child arrangements."
What actually happens:
There's no assumption one parent gets more time. Courts start from the position that kids benefit from meaningful time with both parents unless there's a welfare issue.
What decides it:
The child's best interests, their needs, each parent's ability to meet them, the child's wishes (if age-appropriate), and any risk of harm.
The ideal outcome:
Parents sorting it themselves. Courts only step in when there's genuine dispute or safety concerns.
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[Shawstone Associates, UK Law, Child Arrangements, Custody Myths, Family Law UK, Shared Parenting, Co-parenting Tips, No Bias, Parental Separation, UK Family Court, Welfare First]