Bespoke Mediation Service

Bespoke Mediation Service My name is Thowheetha Shaah and I run Bespoke Mediation Service, based in Esher, Surrey.

As a Family Mediator, I can help you find a way through conflict and move towards a brighter future.

Choosing the right school is a big decision for any family, and it can feel even more challenging for separated parents....
21/08/2026

Choosing the right school is a big decision for any family, and it can feel even more challenging for separated parents.

Whether you're considering primary school, secondary school, or a change in education, making these decisions together with your child's best interests at heart is key.

When communication becomes difficult, mediation can provide a supportive space to discuss options, explore concerns, and work towards an agreement without unnecessary conflict.

Working together on important decisions can help provide children with the stability and reassurance they need.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Mediation Myth: If we've already tried talking, mediation won't work.Reality: Mediation is different from having convers...
18/08/2026

Mediation Myth: If we've already tried talking, mediation won't work.

Reality: Mediation is different from having conversations on your own. A trained, impartial mediator guides the discussion, helps keep communication constructive, and ensures both people have the opportunity to be heard.

Even when communication has broken down, mediation can help people move towards practical solutions.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Pets are part of the family, so it's no surprise they can become a difficult issue during separation.Who will the pet li...
14/08/2026

Pets are part of the family, so it's no surprise they can become a difficult issue during separation.

Who will the pet live with? How will costs be shared? Will the other person still be able to see them?

These conversations can be emotional, but mediation provides a calm and supportive space to discuss concerns and reach practical agreements that work for everyone involved.

When families separate, it's not just people whose futures need careful consideration.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Court proceedings have already started. Can I still go to mediation?Yes. Even if court proceedings have begun, it is oft...
11/08/2026

Court proceedings have already started. Can I still go to mediation?

Yes. Even if court proceedings have begun, it is often still possible to attend mediation.

In many cases, a judge may agree to pause proceedings to give you the opportunity to resolve issues through mediation. Reaching an agreement together can often lead to better long term outcomes, as people are generally more likely to stick to arrangements they have helped create.

It is never too late to explore a more collaborative way forward.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

We are now in the midst of the summer holidays, and for many families, routines have well and truly changed.For separate...
07/08/2026

We are now in the midst of the summer holidays, and for many families, routines have well and truly changed.

For separated parents, this can be a time when plans need adjusting, communication becomes even more important, and unexpected challenges can arise.

Remember, it is okay to be flexible. Keeping conversations child focused and working together wherever possible can help make the rest of the holidays more enjoyable and less stressful for everyone.

Wishing all families a happy and peaceful rest of the summer.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Family law cases are continuing to rise, placing increasing pressure on the courts and highlighting the importance of re...
04/08/2026

Family law cases are continuing to rise, placing increasing pressure on the courts and highlighting the importance of resolving disputes wherever possible before court becomes necessary. Recent figures show increases in both private family law and financial remedy cases.

Mediation offers families the opportunity to work through issues surrounding children and finances in a calmer, more constructive way, helping to reduce conflict, save time, and often lower costs.

When it is safe and appropriate, choosing mediation before court can help families stay in control of the decisions that matter most.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Thinking about family mediation but worried about the cost?The Family Mediation Voucher Scheme may be able to help by co...
29/07/2026

Thinking about family mediation but worried about the cost?

The Family Mediation Voucher Scheme may be able to help by contributing towards the cost of mediation for eligible families.

It is designed to support parents in resolving child related issues in a constructive way, helping to reduce conflict and avoid unnecessary court proceedings.

Accessing support early can make difficult conversations feel more manageable, while keeping children’s needs at the centre of the process.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Child Inclusive Mediation gives children and young people a safe, supportive space to share their thoughts and feelings ...
24/07/2026

Child Inclusive Mediation gives children and young people a safe, supportive space to share their thoughts and feelings during family changes.

As a Child Inclusive Mediator, I offer this service to help ensure children’s voices are heard and considered when important decisions are being made.
This can help parents gain valuable insight into their child’s experiences and needs, supporting more informed, child focused decisions moving forward.

Keeping children at the heart of conversations can make a meaningful difference for the whole family.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Mediation is not about forcing anyone to give up what matters to them. It is about creating a safe and balanced space wh...
22/07/2026

Mediation is not about forcing anyone to give up what matters to them. It is about creating a safe and balanced space where both people can be heard, explore options, and work towards practical solutions together.

The goal is not to “win” or “lose”, but to find outcomes that are fair and workable for everyone involved.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

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