Bespoke Mediation Service

Bespoke Mediation Service My name is Thowheetha Shaah and I run Bespoke Mediation Service, based in Esher, Surrey.

As a Family Mediator, I can help you find a way through conflict and move towards a brighter future.

Planning a holiday abroad as separated parents can sometimes raise questions and concerns, especially when it comes to c...
23/06/2026

Planning a holiday abroad as separated parents can sometimes raise questions and concerns, especially when it comes to consent, communication, and travel arrangements.

If one parent wants to take a child overseas, it is important to make sure the necessary permissions are in place and that plans are discussed clearly and early wherever possible.

Open communication can help avoid misunderstandings and reduce stress, allowing everyone to focus on creating positive experiences for the children.

When conversations feel difficult, mediation can provide a supportive space to work through concerns and reach practical agreements together.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

The summer holidays are now just one month away.For separated parents, this can be a good time to start confirming plans...
19/06/2026

The summer holidays are now just one month away.

For separated parents, this can be a good time to start confirming plans, discussing schedules, and making arrangements for holidays, childcare, and special occasions before the school break begins.

Having conversations early can help reduce stress, avoid misunderstandings, and create a smoother experience for everyone involved, especially children.

A little preparation now can make the summer feel far more relaxed and enjoyable for the whole family.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Mediation is a voluntary process, so you cannot be forced to take part. However, before making most court applications r...
16/06/2026

Mediation is a voluntary process, so you cannot be forced to take part. However, before making most court applications relating to children or finances following separation, you are usually required to attend a MIAM, a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.

A MIAM gives you the opportunity to learn more about mediation, explore different ways to resolve issues, and assess whether mediation may be suitable for your situation.

Even if mediation is not the right path for you, a MIAM is often an important first step in the process.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

As an accredited Child Inclusive Mediator, I am passionate about ensuring children’s voices are heard during family chan...
12/06/2026

As an accredited Child Inclusive Mediator, I am passionate about ensuring children’s voices are heard during family changes and separation.

Child Inclusive Mediation gives children and young people a safe, supportive space to share their thoughts and feelings, helping parents make decisions with a deeper understanding of their child’s needs and experiences.

Keeping children at the heart of conversations can make a meaningful difference for the whole family.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Summer holidays may still feel a little way off, but for separated parents, planning ahead can make a big difference.Fro...
09/06/2026

Summer holidays may still feel a little way off, but for separated parents, planning ahead can make a big difference.

From holiday clubs and travel plans to childcare arrangements and special occasions, having conversations early can help reduce stress and avoid last minute misunderstandings.

Our summer planning checklist is designed to help parents stay organised, communicate clearly, and keep children at the centre of every decision.

A little preparation now can help create a smoother, calmer summer for everyone involved.
Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Grandparents often play a huge role in a child’s life, offering love, stability, and support through every stage of grow...
05/06/2026

Grandparents often play a huge role in a child’s life, offering love, stability, and support through every stage of growing up.

But during family breakdowns or separation, relationships between grandparents and grandchildren can sometimes become strained or disrupted.

While grandparents do not have automatic legal rights to see their grandchildren, there are steps that can be taken to rebuild communication and explore arrangements that are in the child’s best interests.

Where possible, supportive conversations and mediation can help families find a way forward that protects those important family bonds.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

Myth: Mediation is only for couples with children.Reality: Mediation can help with a wide range of issues, including fin...
02/06/2026

Myth: Mediation is only for couples with children.

Reality: Mediation can help with a wide range of issues, including finances, property, communication, and arrangements following separation, whether children are involved or not.

It is a flexible process designed to help people find practical solutions and move forward constructively.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

The family mediation voucher scheme can provide a contribution towards the cost of mediation sessions, helping make supp...
29/05/2026

The family mediation voucher scheme can provide a contribution towards the cost of mediation sessions, helping make support more accessible at a time when clear communication matters most.

It is designed to encourage early resolution, reduce conflict, and help parents reach agreements that work for everyone involved, especially children.

If you are exploring separation or co-parenting arrangements, it may be worth checking whether you are eligible for support through the scheme.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

The rollout of child focused courts marks an important shift in how family cases are being approached.The focus is incre...
27/05/2026

The rollout of child focused courts marks an important shift in how family cases are being approached.

The focus is increasingly on reducing conflict, improving communication between parents, and prioritising the wellbeing and voice of the child throughout the process.

By encouraging earlier resolution and more supportive pathways, including alternatives to court where appropriate, the aim is to minimise stress and help families reach workable, long-term arrangements.

A more thoughtful approach to family separation can make a real difference to children’s experiences and outcomes.

Contact me today, I’d love to help you.

https://www.bespokemediationservice.co.uk/contact-us/
[email protected]
0203 879 7876

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