04/22/2026
With summer sports starting just around the corner ⚽️🎨 - a lot of parents start thinking about registration.
One detail that needs to be discussed in separation agreements:
👉 Extracurricular activities.
It sounds straightforward… until real life kicks in.
• Who decides what the child is enrolled in?
• Do both parents have to agree - or just be informed?
• What counts as a “reasonable” activity?
• How are costs shared (especially if one parent earns more)?
• What if an activity falls on the other parent’s time?
• What happens if one parent signs the child up without asking?
I’ve seen a lot of tension build over something that’s supposed to be fun for the child.
A strong agreement doesn’t just say “we’ll figure it out” - it sets out how decisions are made, how costs are handled, and what happens if you don’t agree.
If you’re working through a separation or updating your agreement, this is one of those areas that’s worth getting really clear on before it becomes an issue 🤍