01/03/2026
I can't believe this is still being recommended: Why 'burn books' backfire every single time.
You'd be surprised how many lawyers still suggest writing a burn book when you exclude someone from your Will.
It's essentially a separate letter where you lay out all the reasons why… every grievance, every piece of difficult history, every justification for your decision.
We strongly advise against this.
A burn book is usually emotional, undated and unsupported by proper evidence. That makes it easy to attack. All it does is hand the excluded person a document they can pull apart line by line.
“This never happened.”
“That’s not true.”
“There’s no proof of this.”
Instead of protecting your estate, you may be strengthening a claim against it.
If someone is legally eligible to challenge a Will under Queensland law, an emotional letter does not stop them. In many cases, it does the opposite.
This is where specialist legal advice matters. Knowing what not to include can be just as important as what you do include.
I’m Kate, founder of Kate Redman & Associates. We help time-poor Queensland families protect their future and peace of mind with mobile, jargon-free Wills and estate planning. So you can stop worrying about the what-ifs and feel safe, protected and prepared.
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